Friday, August 16, 2013

Hot Tubs and Your Family Part 2: The Need for Intimacy

Buying a hot tub is more than just an investment in your property. It is also an investment in your relationship.

Hot Tubs: Helping Grow and Maintain Intimacy

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We are busy people. Between the pressures of work, school, and your home life, sometimes if you're not careful, a subtle but very important part of your relationship can suffer: intimacy. Believe it or not, one of the most common causes of divorce is not infidelity, it is lack of intimacy. Next to lack of communication, lack of intimacy is listed as a factor in the decision to separate or even divorce. Using a hot tub together, is one of the best ways to improve and maintain your intimacy. And why is intimacy so so important?

Well, for one thing, human beings are social creatures. As a rule, we're wired to make social connections with each other. And intimacy is an important part of that connection. If intimacy starts to fade, that precious feeling of connection also starts to fade too. In fact, a lack of intimacy is usually the beginning of other problems such as communication breakdown, suspicion, and distrust. Is a hot tub the solution? Not all of it, no.

Hot Tubs: Setting the Stage for a Lifetime

While installing a hot tub is a good beginning, it isn't everything you're going to need to keep the intimacy alive in your relationship. For one thing, you both have to want to make the effort. A relationship is nothing like it is in the movies or TV as a rule. Relationships take a bit of work to keep them healthy and alive. A good relationship is much like tending a garden. You need to take care of it or it will die. However, one thing that is amazing about relationships is how much just little things can shift the dynamic of the relationship towards healthy.

Calling someone just to say hello and hear their voice takes a moment and causes positive emotions for both parties on each end of the phone. Buying someone flowers just because or turning off the television so you can talk is a big one. And there is something truly enchanting about soaking together in a hot tub, snuggled together.

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